Therapy FAQ · Los Angeles

The questions people actually ask before their first session.

Insurance, Medicare, privacy, what telehealth is like, what to do if you're not sure you "qualify" — answered plainly, without therapy-speak. Use the search to jump to your question, or browse the tabs below.

What is a first therapy session like?

About an hour. A meet-and-fit conversation — what brought you in, what you've tried, what you'd want to feel different. You don't have to share everything. You don't have to know what's wrong yet. Many people don't on day one. We listen carefully, ask a few questions, and answer yours. You decide if you want to come back.

What should I bring to my first session?

Your insurance card, a list of any medications you take, and the names of any other clinicians involved in your care (primary care doctor, specialist, prior therapist). You don't need to prepare a "story." We'll meet you where you are.

Do I need a referral?

For most plans, no — including Medicare and most Medicare Advantage plans. A few HMO-style plans require one. Call us with your card and we'll verify.

Can I just try one session and decide later?

Yes. The first session is a meet-and-fit. There's no commitment to come back. Many people use the first session to decide whether the practice and the clinician feel right.

How do I know if you're the right fit?

Mostly: do you feel met? Do you feel like the clinician asked the right kinds of questions and didn't rush you? Did you leave the first session feeling slightly less alone with what you came in with? If yes, you're in the right place. If not, we'll happily refer you to someone better suited.

What if I don't like talking about feelings?

Many of our clients don't, especially men of generations that weren't raised to. Therapy isn't unstructured talking-about-feelings. It's a structured conversation that often starts with the practical (sleep, energy, appetite, what's gotten harder lately) and circles in. You don't have to perform vulnerability to benefit from this.

What if I cry?

That's fine. Tissues are on the table. Many sessions have tears. Many don't. Neither is more "real" than the other.

Can I bring my partner or adult child?

Yes. Some clients prefer the first session to be solo, then bring family later. Some bring family from session one. Either is fine. We'll discuss what makes sense for what you're working on.

Do I have to talk about my childhood (or trauma) right away?

No. We follow your lead on what you do and don't want to talk about, and at what pace. Some things take months to get to. Some never do. That's okay.

I'm not sure I "need" therapy. What if I'm being dramatic?

You don't have to be in crisis to start. Many of the people who come to us aren't. They're tired. Carrying something old. Sleeping less well than they used to. That counts. It always counted.

Still have a question?

Call us at (626) 354-6440 — a real person answers. Or send a message and we'll respond same business day.